Wednesday, September 19, 2018

The Unusual and the Unique


Trinity Christian Church is one of a myriad of churches in the small town of New Bloomfield, Perry County, PA.  The Lutheran church is right next door. The United Methodist church is two blocks over.  The River of Life Church is just beyond that.  The Mormons, Seventh Day Adventists and the Catholic Church sit to west each a bit further than the last.  A Baptist church is just out of town to the east.  Trinity Christian began as a German Reformed Church in the middle 1845’s becoming United Church of Christ in 1952.  In 2016, being a very conservative congregation, they pulled out of the UCC largely over the issues gay marriage and abortion.  From then until mid 2017 an interim pastor of the orthodox Presbyterian persuasion filled the pulpit

In July 2017, the congregation voted to call Ed Boyle as their pastor.  His path to the ministry was atypical to say the least.  He was born in the coal regions of Pennsylvania to a staunch Irish-Catholic family.  During his early childhood, his father came to faith in Christ alone as his Savior and withdrawing his family from the Catholic Church began attending a local evangelical church.  Ed also professed faith in Christ during his growing up years.  In his 20’s, he joined the Army and began to progress up through the ranks.  Ed retired from the military as a lieutenant-colonel after 25 years of service.  But a non-working retirement was not in his plans.  He felt that God was calling him to the ministry and he entered Covenant Seminary in Illinois for 3 years of pastoral studies.  Trinity Christian is his first church.  He brings not only a testimony of saving faith and the years of study to his first pastorate, but also knowledge and maturity gained through living many years as a member rather than pastor of a local congregation.

But though Ed is quite unusual among pastors, I find his wife Dawn to be truly unique among pastor’s wives.  She began life and grew up in a small town in Tennessee, but headed to University of Alabama for her college years and ROTC training (she didn’t like the orange and white school colors of University of Tennessee).  A avid football fan, Bear Bryant as head coach of the Crimson Tide was also a huge draw.  After graduation, she enlisted in the Army and met Ed whom she outranked at the time, she being all of 5’ 1” and he being over 6’ tall.  Dawn left the Army when they got married to be a full time wife and eventually the home schooling mother of one daughter and three sons. 

As a pastor’s wife, appearances would be that she is fairly typical.  She is very grounded in the Word, spends much time on her knees in prayer, is generous with her attention and affection for those in the congregation.  She dresses modestly and appropriately for services in a dress or skirt.  Her duties included some secretarial work, visitation with her husband on numerous occasions, help in planning for activities.  So what makes her so unique?  Well, the outfit she wears to church Sunday morning may have an Alabama Crimson Tide logo under her sweater or vest during football season, hidden, but there nonetheless.  Her preferred not-at-church attire is jeans and a t-shirt or sweatshirt.  She is quite outspoken, but quick to apologize if she fears she has offended.  And I think one would look long and hard to find another pastor’s wife with a military career spent being the pilot of a Huey transport helicopter.

Monday, September 3, 2018

A Keepsake for the Decades

WENTWORTH--KNERR WEDDING

After the rehearsal at the church this morning, a picnic at the groom's parents' house in Middletown, Pennsylvania and a photo session for the entire bridal party late this afternoon, the ceremony uniting Candace Lee Wentworth and Barry Lee Knerr in holy matrimony was held at the Grace Baptist Church, Carlisle, Pennsylvania at 7 pm on this day, August 30, 1974.  The bride wore a white, floor length organza gown with a sheer overlay embroidered with scattered flowers.  A wide lace collar finished the high neckline and a deep lace ruffle encircled the bottom of the dress.  The veil was cathedral length and double tier, made of tulle trimmed in wide lace.  The bridesmaids wore white floor length gowns paneled with flower sprigged eyelet.  Each carried a white basket filled with colored carnations, blue for the maid of honor and pink for the bridesmaids.  The groom and groomsmen were dressed in brown tuxedos and ruffled shirts with brown bow ties and white carnation boutonnieres.  The bride's bouquet was red roses surrounding white and pink carnations bordered with more white carnations.  The groom wore a white rose boutonniere.  Members of the wedding party included the bride's sister as maid of honor and the groom's brother as best man.

Two organ solos and several hymns sung by the church choir comprised the prelude, after which the presiding minister gave a short sermon to the gathered guests on the true meaning of love both horizontally and vertically.  The bridal party then processed into the sanctuary to the melody from the hymn "O Perfect Love". The words to the hymn were read after the wedding party had entered. The bride was escorted by her father. The ceremony was traditional with the couple reciting individually written vows.  Rings were exchanged and the couple pronounced man and wife.

Following the ceremony, a reception was held in the church social hall with food bought at the Army War College commissary by the bride's parents, supplemented with side dishes contributed by church members.  The guest sat in chairs arranged in a circular fashion while the wedding party sat at a head table.  A two tiered, square white cake trimmed in blue icing flowers was topped with a silver cross with 2 interlocking rings.  A smaller bouquet was used for the bouquet toss as the bride wished to keep her bridal bouquet as a keepsake.

The couple took a short honeymoon to Thousand Islands in New York State before returning to reside in Carlisle, Pennsylvania.


Note:  The bride still has her wedding bouquet as well as every rose that her husband has given her throughout their 44 years of marriage.  The flowers reside in a tall glass cylinder in her bedroom.